Two Tips On Your Family Relationship

There are different kinds of relationship in our life.
We have to deal with all these relationship everyday.
You can deal with all these relationship with your own
standard or you can choose the standard of God when facing
your relationship.Let's take a look at what the Bible says
about our family relatinoship.

1. Family Of Love

When God first created human being.He created
Adam and Eve.These two people formed the first
family of mankind.Later on,They started to have their
own children and it was never easy for them to
handle their family relationship by themselves.Look at
how Adam had blamed Eve for His own sin and
wanted to escape from his own responsibilty, you
will understand the tension from just two family
members.When Adam and Eve had their children,
things had became more complicated .Cain had
murdered his own brother Abel and since then,
human expereienced more conflict and sadness in
their famiily communication.(Gen.4 :1-8)All these
problems arose from human ignorance of God's
word and God's standard of living.Therefore,the
solution to any family issue has to begin with a
return to God's word.When dealing with family
relationship,love is always the best medicine to begin
with.It is hard for anybody to communicate with their
own family members if love is not exist in a
relationship.No wonder Jesus emphasized on love
when teaching about the essence of the Law.
(Matt.22 : 35-38)For without love, peolple will remain
self centered and will not see things from other's
perspective.In fact, The Bible always emphasized
on the unity and harmony of a family (Eph 6:1-4)and
also to love it's own members(Eph 5:22-25).With
the word of God,family problems will have exit.

2. Family of Communication

There are many busy people in this world who will
work for long hours but with less rest.These people
don't spend enough time at home and even they are
at home ,they don't really spend their times to
communicate with their children and spouse. An
interesting survey in Asia indicated that 2 things
that an Asian man will do the most when he is at
home are : sleep and watch TV. No wonder many
teenages from Asia won't be able to have a positive
father figure at home,because their fathers never
talk to them or listen to how they feel. No matter
what kinds of relationship we are talking about
today,communication plays an iimportant role in it.
It is true to say that communication takes our time
away. But apart from this process,quality
communication that promote understanding and
support to our family members will hardly exist.The
Bible states that there is a time for everything
(Ecc 3 : 1-11) ,so why not take some times to build
up your family relationship at least once a week
from today on. Perhaps you will get to know your
family in a better way and aware of positve
change after a short periods of time.

Conclusion
Family is a gift of God and we all have to
treasure such a gift.If you can protect your
family with love and communication, You
are doing God's will and the devil will has
less chance to attack your family. On the
other hand, you will experience more
blessing from God.